Matthew Cornell

OK, a confession: Like almost everything I've done to create and build my productivity practice, I'm doing goals wrong unconventionally :-) Almost every time management book and blog I've read recommends having written goals, reviewed regularly. For example, Zenhabits' Top 20 Motivation Hacks - An Overview lists (among others):

• #17: Post a picture of your goal someplace visible -- near your desk or on your refrigerator, for example.
  
• #16: Get a workout partner or goal buddy.
  
• #5: Visualize your goal clearly, on a daily basis, for at least 5-10 minutes.
  
• #4: Keep a daily journal of your goal.

And The Ten Part Mental Fitness Program has extensive goal-setting tips. These are great ideas.

The confession? I have no written goals. They're not on my office wall, they're not on stickies posted around my house (a fine suggestion from Order from Chaos), and I don't reflect on them during my weekly review (see Seven Questions That Will Change Your Life for a useful list [1] of questions). I have a love/hate relationship with them: I'd love to have the list (I'm sure it's helpful), but it just doesn't work for me.


Last week (Small steps to big results) I suggested that completing one tiny high-value task a day can lead to steady progress on what's important, and provides built-in end-of-the-day satisfaction. But what's important? I'm convinced that modern "bottom-up" approaches like GTD are the best way to get our lives together. But they are just the start [2].

So here's an idea to discover your goals, bottom-up: Use your self-management system to let your goals emerge from the things you've decided to spend time on. Some examples of places to look:

• Collection: The stuff entering your life says a lot about what you care about. For me, I get: many books (from readers as well as my wish list), book notes, blog ideas, many thoughts and ideas from blogs I read, as well as the personal stuff: bills, insurance, school notes, etc.
  
• Projects and Actions: This is where the rubber meets the road, and tells you most about your priorities.
  
• Delegation/Agendas: Who you spend time with is also telling. There's a saying: "You are who you spend time with," which as absolutely true. It also impacts your health and well-being [3]. (A recent revelation: I've started applying rigorously Koch's radical ideas on relationships. He really makes you think about them.)
  
• Someday/Maybe: Listen to your dreams. In The 4-Hour Workweek Tim Ferriss says "'What are your goals' is a bad question. It's not a useful one. It's hard to answer." Instead it's better to ask "What would excite me?" I love it. A few of mine: chocolate cafe, bat house, backyard habitat.
  
• Calendar & Tickler: Where have you scheduled time? This is big commitment, and worth looking at. (Your time maps [4] will tell you something, if you use them).
  
• Reading/TV: What are you letting into your brain? Reading [5] is crucial for continued mental stimulation and development, and most TV just plain sucks.
  
• Trash: This is your first line of not doing. Nuke the non-essentials.

Here are a few goals I discovered from these:

• Establishing myself as a top personal productivity consultant. Subgoals include: establishing repute (writing this blog is an on-going project), a crash course in the field (I love this word: Autodidacticism).
  
• Being a great parent. Subgoals: Staying involved in my daughter's school, reading, discussing issues with my wife, and spending a ton of time with her.
  
• Spending lots of time with my family.
  
• Financial health. Subgoals: Stay on top of bills, multiple streams of income (rentals), build a lucrative practice, save.
  
• The essentials: Food, clothing, shelter, etc.
  
• Environment & Nature. We need to stop dirtying our nest. Period.
  
• Living simply. Subgoals: Reducing unnecessary stuff, working fewer hours, outsourcing [6].
  

But how do you use these? Simple: Cut down on those that don't align, increase those that do, and keep paying attention to what yours are. Mark Forster says in Do It Tomorrow: if you want to cut down on your workload, [goals are] where you have to focus. As I said last week, Liz Davenport makes this provocative statement: You can predict where you'll be in ten years just by looking at your to-do lists. If it's only taking care of business or survival items, in ten years, you'll be right where you are!

How about you? Do you know your goals? What are they? Do you actively track them? What changes have you made in your life as a result?


References

• [1] Some reflective questions to ask during the weekly review:
  1. What will I try to improve on next week?
     
  2. What was I most proud of this week?
     
  3. What was my biggest accomplishment this week?
     
  4. What have I done to get closer to my life goals this week?
     
  5. What was hard for me this week, and why?
     
  6. What was my biggest waste of time this week?
     
  7. What did I do this week that made me ashamed?
• [2] I like Steve Pavlina's thoughts in The Essential Missing Half of Getting Things Done. He starts at the top with purpose, then details his goals (divided into need-based and purpose-based), and finally on to standard GTD projects and actions. Pavlina asserts that:

  The high level element that is missing from standard GTD is, in my personal opinion, absolutely essential. It makes no sense to blindly apply standard GTD unless you've already secured the top level elements of purpose, mission, and goals.

• [3] E.g., Spend Time with People Who Appreciate You and Who You Spend Time With Determines How You Feel.
• [4] Julie Morgenstern's made these popular. See this newsletter article. From Organizing from the Inside Out:

  [a time map] allots specific spaces in your schedule for tending to the various core activities of your life. It serves as a foundation from which to work that forces you to keep your life in balance, giving you all the time you need to accomplish your goals.

• [5] See The 4-hour workweek applied: How I spent $100, saved hours, and boosted my reading workflow.
  
• [6] See The 4-hour workweek applied: How I spent $100, saved hours, and boosted my reading workflow.