GTD Workflow Assessment/Tips Checklist

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You can also use [...] A-Z tabs to track communications and lists. [...] Write the name of each person with whom you communicate frequently at the top: subordinates who report to you, key coworkers, clients, your boss, spouse, children, and so on. As you think of things you need to discuss [...] simply turn to that person's log, filed behind the first letter in the person's name, and make a note.Those familiar with David Allen's Getting Things Done methodology will recognize this as his agenda idea. Allen recommends GTD practitioners keep separate lists for people we "work" with (including spouses and children), and for regular meetings.
Also, keep track of lists filed behind the letter of the category, such as goals, values, classes to attend, books to read, shopping, errands, gifts, chores, vacation ideas, purchases, birthdays, holidays, and special occasions.Here, GTD-ers will recognize Allen's "checklists" notion. I realize it sounds dumb, but for me the realization that I could put these checklists in the A-Z section (rather than under tabs or in a memo section) was very helpful.
I'd like to pass along something I've been trying out that's been surprisingly helpful in dealing with others. It's quite simple: I've combined Nicholas Boothman's idea of a Really Useful Attitude (from the book How to Make People Like You in 90 Seconds or Less [1]) with smiling when I approach someone new. This approach (RUA+Smile) has resulted in amazingly better interactions with people, especially folks with "problems."
Briefly, here's how it works: First, before an encounter with someone I establish the useful attitude I want to bring to it. I usually pick two, such as curious and needing help. Then I put a smile on my face and jump right in.
Here's an example: Recently I took a family trip to Colorado to visit friends and, because air travel is not one of my favorite activities [2], I wanted to avoid my typical anxiety about delays, problems, etc. Usually I'd go in expecting problems, but this time around I tried out the RUA+Smile approach. Before checking in at the ticket counter I put on an attitude of compassion (for the overworked employee) and gratitude (for the privilege of being able to fly), fired up my smile, and waited my turn. The woman who helped us was clearly having a bad morning, and wasn't quite uncooperative with the ticketing and luggage. However, we got through it, brought the bags to the big X-ray machine, and learned that only three of the four had been checked; the fourth was missing its tag.
OK, so I went back to the desk where the same person stated (somewhat aggressively) that I had only asked for three bags to be checked. I recalled differently, and normally would have argued with her to show that I was right and the fault was hers. However, I instead told her I thought it must be hard for airline employees these days with pension troubles, skyrocketing fuel costs, and general financial insecurities. Boy did she agree! Among these and other problems, she said she's manning the desk and training her (lower-paid) replacement whom she's loosing her job to. Ugh! I expressed my sympathy (trying to place myself in her shoes), all the while getting the final bag checked.
This is a small example, but I've had a number of other situations come up like this, and the RUA+Smile approach has helped in them all, especially with low-pay, high-stress jobs like customer service. Keep in mind that I'm really trying to think of the other person, not just think "How can I act to get what I want?" But you'd be surprised how often you can make things go more smoothly when you adopt one of these attitudes before interacting with someone. From page 41: Really Useful Attitudes:
In contrast, consider these Really Useless Attitudes:
See any you've had on before? Sadly, when I first read this, I recognized a bunch of them.
So why does this work? Here's how Boothman puts it:
Attitudes set the quality and mood of your thoughts, your tone of voice, your spoken words. Most importantly, they govern your facial and body language... Once your mind is set into a particular attitude, you have very little ongoing conscious control over the signals your body sends out.
He concludes with:
In face-to-face situations, your attitude precedes you. it is the central force in your life - it controls the quality and appearance of everything you do.
So next time you're about to interact with someone, I encourage you to try this out. And I'd love to hear any stories about your results.
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(In which the author serves up a light-hearted summer offering for his tactile-depraved fellow person.)
As a practitioner of David Allen's Getting Things Done methodology for personal productivity [1], I've found it useful to regularly remind myself of work transitions during the day in order to stay focused. I wrote about a number of them in Transitions: A secret ingredient to Getting Things Done?, including Leaving the house, Leaving the driveway, etc. Since then I've been giving some thought to being aware of which workflow stage I'm in, since each one requires different tools and thinking. From chapter two, Allen says:
THE CORE PROCESS I teach for mastering the art of relaxed and controlled knowledge work is a five-stage method for managing workflow. ... We (1) collect things that command our attention; (2) process what they mean and what to do about them; and (3) organize the results, which we (4) review as options for what we choose to (5) do.
To help keep the stages in mind during the day, I've been playing with an idea I got after building some of Ned Batchelder's business card cubes [2]. The breakthrough? (Prepare yourself.) I labelled each side with a stage, and turn the cube according to which one I'm doing. If I find I'm wandering (e.g., doing some email processing because the dinger distracted me), I use the cube to remind me of what I was doing.
(In case the idea isn't blindingly clear, you can see a freakishly well-composed picture on Flicker.) Like any paradigm-shattering idea, it may take a while to sink in. So don't worry if you feel confused for a few days.
Lest you think that's all there is to it, there's a deeper question:
What goes on the mysterious sixth side?
So far I've heard a few quite polarized opinions, which seem to fall into two camps: a) keep it blank, or b) put something on it. The blank contingent considers the lack of label significant, possibly representing "I'm done," "I'm getting nothing done" (and aware of/happy with it), or maybe "it's time for a break."
The second camp (the "depth via expression, rather than interpretation" crowd) has suggestions ranging from writing "Smile" on the blank side to placing cute stickers (preferably kittens) on it.
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